Apprentice Doctor Academy Community Chat Nursing & Medical Assistant Seriously thinking nursing instead of medicine, talk me through it

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      Jamie Bekker
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      The more I read the more nursing actually appeals to me, but I keep worrying I’d be settling. For anyone who chose it on purpose, what made you sure, and is the everyone-will-think-you-couldn’t-be-a-doctor thing real?

    • #126167
      Tom Basson
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      I chose it on purpose with the marks to do medicine, and I have never once regretted it. The settling feeling is other people’s opinion living rent free in your head. On a hard night it’s the nurse the patient remembers. That was enough for me. Spend a shift with a nurse before you decide anything, it answers the question fast.

      • #127019
        Hana Park
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        This is a good thread. Tom’s shadowing suggestion is honestly the most useful advice in here, you can read about scope of practice all day but you don’t feel the difference between “diagnosing” and “being with the patient for the next eight hours” until you watch it happen in real time.

        One thing I’d add for Jamie: pay attention during that shift to who’s actually doing the hands on assessment work, repositioning, wound checks, titrating meds based on how the patient looks right now. That’s a different skill set than diagnostic reasoning, not lesser, just different. Some people love the puzzle solving distance of medicine, some people want to be that close to the physiology for the whole shift. Neither answer is the “safe” one, they just use different parts of your brain.

        Also seconding that it’s not a wall. My aunt did nursing first, bridged into med school in her 30s, and she says the nursing years are why she’s good at the parts of medicine that actually matter on the ward.

    • #126168

      And you’re not locked in forever. People bridge from nursing or assisting into medicine all the time, and they make better doctors for having done it. Choosing one door now doesn’t brick up the others.

      • #126921
        Jamie Bekker
        Member

        okay that actually helps more than i expected. i think part of what was tripping me up is treating this like a life sentence, like if i pick nursing at 17 that’s it, decision made forever, no take backs. framing it as a door that stays open instead of a wall makes it feel way less scary.

        gonna try shadow a nurse for a shift like Tom said before i overthink this into the ground. thanks Zanele

    • #126169

      Listen to Tom and Zanele, they’re living the answer. I’ll only add this. The patient in front of you does not rank the team by salary. They want competent, calm and kind, and every role can be all three. Choose the work you’d happily do on an ordinary Tuesday, not the title that sounds best at a dinner party.

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